Hubby vs Hair Health

There’s no other way to start this post off than by saying credit is due to my DH (dear hubby) because he doesn’t make a big deal out of my hair obsession; partly because he loves my hair almost as much as I do but… there comes a time when I gotta choose - my boo, or my hurr.  Boo, hurr, boo, hurr, lol. What does one have to do with the other you ask?  Well... extended periods of trying to be cute, chucking protective styling out the window for vanity’s sake, doin ‘the grown up’ sans satin scarf so you don’t wanna kill the mood, allowing him to play in my hair alot (my ends mostly aswell!) does take its toll, usually in the form of an army of SSKs that appear like stealth bombers overnight lol.

Some would say well isn’t the point of growing your hair to to enjoy it and be creative with it and in turn be attractive to your husband?  Well yes, but… I guess it depends what your hair goals are and how close you are to achieving them.  As for me, I definitely want more length (hubby loves how much I have now, but is intrigued with the thought of having more to play with, haha).  So in the interests of maintaining my sexy, do I slap his hands away, wear my satin scarf like a second skin 24/7, protective style alllll the time with no breaks?  Earlier in my journey, it did kinda feel I was trying to walk a tightrope between keeping my goal of longer hair on track, as well as maintaining my sexy/keeping hubby happy, now I am a little more relaxed about it.  Hey, it’s a journey…

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